This rant probably makes little sense out of context. But, I wrote it in response to a friend's loving warnings not to take on a nasty public fight with some folks who I allowed myself to become a victim of.There was a quote on my igoogle page yesterday that said something like "Always and Never are two words one should always remember to Never use"My Oprah quote about being "One of the ten women in America who will take your breath away," is a result of that early battle... Read more...

Its always easy to know whats best for somebody elseI'm guiltyI was just remembering different things people have said to me over the years. Everybody knows what you should and if you do it and it doesn't come out the way they said , it was your faultnobody even takes responsibility for not knowing anything about their own damn lives and especially not knowing enough to tell anybody else anythingI'm guiltyOne "friend" told another "I don't think Tonya li... Read more...